it’s not my job
This is one of my favorite teachings and probably the words I most need tattooed on my forehead.
When I heard these words on a podcast with Brooke Castillo I immediately paused. I wrote it down. I meditated on it. And honestly come back to this simple phrase every single day.
I used to explain myself a lot. Like a whole lot. And I’d notice myself framing parts of my life as a way to “figure” it all out. I like things to be tidy and to make sense but in all honestly I’ve never said “I don’t know” more. And that “I don’t know” feels freeing.
We are meant to evolve, to shift, to change our minds. It is not our job to manage (nor is it even slightly possible) what others think of us. And I’m learning that lesson again in such a big way and, once again, it’s freeing.
This year:
+ More awareness of how I feel in my relationships and which ones are serving me, and which ones are not.
+ Following my intuition with both my YES and my NO.
+ Not tolerating disrespect or gossip and just being done when it’s time to be done.
+ Staying in my lane and cleaning it up! Maybe even making it real pretty because Virgo energy.
+ More focus on what I’m actively cultivating energetically and physically.
Feels so good.
